I guess we all go thru times of total frustation…nothing we do, want to do, or attempt to do, gets you anywhere except deeper in a pile of
mental overload and physical depression.
It takes a toll on you. “Nothing I do seems to work out right, so why bother?” The more you try, the less you receive until you’re fed-up and at the point of quitting. and it doesn’t matter how up-beat and cheerful the next person is… you don’t really want to hear it.
and the more frustated you are, the more fed-up and disgusted at yourself and the how bad the situation has become..on top of that, you’re just so damned tired.
Tired of listening to others, when clearly they are not in your position, have no idea the current struggles you are facing…even though they may have had their own.. and the answers or suggestions offered do not pertain to or fix the immediate need.
So what do you do, when you’ve exhausted every available resource possible? When you’re just in that space where you don’t even call out for help anymore because you’re tired of being told “sorry, I don’t know what to tell ya”? or worse?
So what do you do when you’re the one responsible for providing
everything that everyone depends on just for the basic amenities and
you just don’t have it.
When you want to just walk away from everyone, and everything,
because you’re so exhausted from the arguments, and the
attitudes, and yet, walking away doesn’t solve anything because
that would only make things a lot worse?
You find yourself going around in circles, checking and rechecking for something that you might missed and coming up with the same .. a whole handful of “nope, nothing here”. Going back to bed, throwing over the covers and hoping that something “miraculously will appear”
isn’t the answer either.
I personally do not have the specific answer as to what you might need. But if you’re going thru any of this, I can only guess it’s a serious financial issue. Not having the immediate funds to pay your bills, or rent, or buy groceries for your Family… that’s a mental, and
emotional burden of desperation, that many people struggle with.
First and foremost, know that you are not alone. Too many times,
we find ourselves in this position and think “no one knows my
problems, how can they possible help”?
People might not know what you’re going thru, simply because our own pride prevents us from expressing our pain. Trust me when I say to you… I really do know it. It’s not pretty and it makes you feel like shit because you’re the sole-supporter and can’t even do that.
I’m not writing this to pitch my business to you, although it’s available if you choose… No, I’m writing to voice the feelings of many. Financial debt is a serious concern because with it comes or leads to desperate measures being taken that wouldn’t normally be considered.
So, if you’re reading this, and are in this “space”, don’t do anything foolish. You are much better off on this side of the dirt than 6 foot
under. Even though it doesn’t seem like it now, when everything is
crashing down around you, and you feel you need a bull-dozer to
move that overloading mountain of despair… reach out one more time.
If I can help you, I will.
Learn how I’m able to stay at home with my Family, as sole-provider
and single Mom & Grandmom..
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person, in a Company that is Family orientated, and with a Mentor
that is genuinely interested in your welfare.
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